What you do VS Who you are

​We teach and tell our children to excel in their studies, excel in sports, excel in “WHAT” you want to be. We tell them to make good grades in High School, College for your CAREER. 
We tell our children WORK HARD, STAY FOCUSED ON YOUR CRAFT. Whether it be ART, MUSIC, PERFORMANCE, FOOTBALL, BASKETBALL ETC..
We tell them this all of their Childhood and when they make it to adulthood … THEIR SKILLS ARE TOP NOTCH But….
We never told them that working on WHO THEY ARE WAS just as important AS WHAT THEY ARE. We build the SKILLS BUT NOT THE PERSON PERFORMING THE SKILLS.. 
IT’S NOT THE SAME.
WE CREATE A WORLD OF PEOPLE DEFINED BY WHAT THEY DO INSTEAD OF WHO THEY ARE.

FEAR

​FEAR is usually the reason why you don’t do so many things that you should. But we make excuses for the fear. Why haven’t you quit that job? Moved? Gotten married? Started that business?
We use FINANCES, CHILDREN, FAMILY as EXCUSES. We say we need more time to get our stuff together…. but time won’t help if you NEVER TAKE THE STEP.
Last night I saw some of the most SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE say SUCCESS has nothing to do with FINANCES. LAST NIGHT A WOMAN WHO WORKED FOR A RECORD COMPANY MAKING 500K A YEAR WAS SUICIDAL AND NOT HAPPY UNTIL SHE TRULY DECIDED TO LIVE.
EVERYTHING THAT’S HOLDING YOU BACK IS ROOTED IN FEAR.

What do the LONELY do at Christmas. 

​The people that I LOVE are all in my heart today. And they are scattered everywhere..It’s so amazing how they all fit in my heart and there is plenty of room for more… That LITTLE THING IS POWERFUL. I have been without my love on this day for a few years due to parental duties. At first I was emotional about it. It was like a bitter sweet occasion every year. Bitter because we can’t spend it together but sweet because he is one hell of a father…Today I feel so very different.  We actually communicate. Him an I like really discuss our feelings about the things we are uncomfortable with and we devise plans to handle the discomfort.. That’s why this year is different.  We created our own Chrismas day (Eventhough neither of us are to big on it) he came up with the perfect plan and although I would still love to physically be with him….. My heart is, and he knows that. My heart is with several people.  That’s some powerful ish. That’s why I am happy today. 
“The heart connects when your hands can’t”

-Daphne Pollard

What PROBLEM?

​”If we threw all of our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back” 

-Regina Brett
I often go back to this quote when I “think” I have a problem… And I said “think” because oftentimes we are the calm of our own storms. This is not to diminish our problems or issues but instead to amplify our BLESSINGS. When you focus on your blessings and solutions , you may even have the opportunity to help someone else in the pile . 

-DAPHNE POLLARD

ESSENCE OF VITALITY 

So I did it. I did the EOV cleanse. I will tell you first that I am not a BANDWAGON JUMPER that tries any and everything on the market. I am very particular about what I put into my body and why. So I researched this tonic for about a month. I found myself having to build my confidence because of what I heard about the taste. This is a bitter tonic made of ONLY ALL NATURAL HERBS. It is not a tea or smoothie cleanse. It is not the MASTER CLEANSE. It cleanses your intestines and liver, repairs cells, regulates your blood glucose and so much more.

Guys it was as bad as I imagined. Worse. The taste was something that I couldn’t describe. But I did it. The thing that made me happy about the Cleanse was that I could still eat food while cleansing. 

I started on friday night….It began to work within one hour. I had to make the ladies room my friend for the entire night. But it did not cramp or make me feel ill. 

I ate a few healthy snacks friday night and a banana on Saturday morning but when I ate lunch I experienced a very euphoric feeling. I ate hummus, asparagus, fresh okra, and carrots with water. I felt really alert and LIFTED. I did 8OZ the first day then 2oz two days following. WHAT IVE NOTICED.

  • MY SKIN IS RADIANT
  • IM SLEEPING 6 HOURS A NIGHT (I HAVEN’T BEEN SLEEPING OVER 3 HOURS SINCE I WAS IN MY 20’S
  • MY STOMACH HAS SLIMMED DOWN
  • BOTH OF MY NOSTRILS ARE OPENED FOR THE FIRST TIME SINCE HIGH SCHOOL

SO MY ULTIMATE GOAL IS TO CURE MYSELF OF THE SEVERE MENSTRAL CRAMPS I HAVE. I WILL UPDATE YOU ALL WHEN THAT TIME COMES. To see the youtube video here is the link https://youtu.be/pLR0cS5ayTg